By Which We Choose?

By which we choose in everyday events that occur can be momentous and mindfully challenging and can also be downright negligent and hurtful.

Some people choose to do a lot of things in this world whether it’s good or bad. A lot of what is wrong in this world is not just on the surface but can be from a lot of other baggage left unturned, unfelt, history of many pasts carried forward to right now-in this century of time.

One factor in these issues is that some people suffer internally with something and may not even know if it’s an issue that causes harm to others, or it could be from a past event that has not been addressed to help the person feel more in control of those issues before they escalate to something more.

For example: cases of child abuse, spousal abuse and more. When it gets to a point where an individual knows inside their inner core that they have an issue of violence, anger etc. then that individual needs to get help (counseling, psychiatry, psychology etc.). If you know that the individual has such issues, then find them help or offer suggestions where they can start. 

Another example is when situations get to a point where individuals are afraid to voice what is utterly wrong or wrongdoing. It does not matter if it is within a professional domain or in-the-home. Apparently, there is a synaptic break happening where reality is no longer a factor.

The cycle cannot keep repeating itself with wrongful doings. An “eye-for-eye’ or  “tooth-for-a-tooth” is not the way to end the cycles. The more drama, harm and fear we keep alive and active the deeper “by which we choose” becomes. Therefore, more deaths happen, families broken and no real peace in the world- no culture, no love.

“By Which We Choose” means do we live in a world of despair, hatred, physical and emotional trauma, harming of self, harming others, acts of violence, anger…the list goes on.

In consideration of the many unnecessary deaths and tragedies that have happened in our country…

Let us work on positive change for the mind and saving of lives and families starting today.

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